Lisbeth Darsh is one of my all time favorite bloggers. She's smart, witty and she just makes SENSE. I've had the saying below tucked away for almost a year. Pulling it out to read, whenever I need motivation or am feeling less of myself. I feel, as women, we spend so much damn time trying to be what everyone else wants us to be, instead of just doing what
WE WANT and being what
WE ARE. Being
REAL and truthful with others and myself is something I pride myself on. And you know what? Other people notice when you actually live a truthful, real life. Those "One Uppers" (yeah, we all know people like this) or people who shit talk to make themselves look more "important"...well I hate to tell all those idiots, but people see right through your insecurities. Really? You do
EVERYTHING better than everyone else? Or you seriously think we believe that every story we tell you, you have either done it or know how to do it? Get over yourself and be
HONEST. Why try to be so perfect? Imperfections are what make us who we are, so
own that shit!
I hope this inspirational quote does as much for you as it does for me. I typed it up for you below, because my awesome meme, made the type kinda small :) You're welcome!
Check out Lisbeth Darsh's blog
wordswithlisbeth.com - she really is amazing!!!
"People say fear is a choice.
Well, so is ignorance.
Stupid is a choice.
BEING LESS THAN YOURSELF is a choice.
Dumbing yourself down for others. Lifting less weight, because you're scared of being strong.
Snarky gossip.
ALL choices.
Keeping your mouth shut when you really want to stand up and take on the forces of hate in this world? That's a choice too.
In my opinion, we spend far too much time on being "good girls" and far too little time on being badass bitches.
Imagine what your life would be like if you just said every morning,
"Here's who the hell I am. Time to get shit done!"
Hide your light under a basket? Smash the basket. Blind the crowd with your light.
Even the Bible says, "Nor do people light a lamp, and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house."
Stop hiding. Go fucking light up the world!"
~Lisbeth Darsh